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Laura Lynch's avatar

My father was stoic growing up. We had a deep bond, but I was an emotional creature by nature! I so wanted to be like him! I saw him as strong and contained! He was my rock and I wanted to be a rock! So I spent years shutting off the water works until the faucet never turned on! But, as a parent, there is something deep that stirs when it comes to your children (I think especially as a mom) and I’m glad for it! At some point, the faucet turned back on and I can’t turn it off … LOL! But it’s so good! I loved reading this … it just resonated so much! 😊

Susan Horsley's avatar

I’ve been learning to feel after many years of shutting them down. Stopping to watch the geese as they migrate, the blossom as it appears, the grief of our broken world, the longing for home. It’s a gift.

Deborah Rutherford's avatar

So good Tanner. Thank you for sharing beautiful honest words. I'm a crier.

mer323's avatar

This is so nice! Having a tender heart is such a gift. Thank you for sharing both videos with us. ;)

Doug Hunt's avatar

really like this poem Tanner - and your honest reflection- thanks

Andrea Stoeckel's avatar

I get it. I'm crying from another Substack this morning. No reason, just life. Won't get to church this week because of the paratransit eejits who have been screwing up all week after 13 years of fairly smooth sailing.